This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: You are not alone
We put up a dating confessional on Instagram the other week about your biggest fears about dating that you haven't said outloud. We got responses such as:
- I'm afraid I'll be the last of my friend group to get married
- Never finding someone again with who I really connect who thinks I'm good enough too.
- What if I never find someone?
- That I'm boring and that's why guys don't stay past date #3
- The one might not exist
- I'm scared how a relationship may change mebut also curious to see how
- Finding a good guy and having to go through a breakup if it doesn't work out
There were SO many more. But this just shows that these fears are normal. You are never alone in what you're feeling or going through.
But if a friend came to you with one of these concerns. Likely you'd tell them that they are a complete catch and someone would only be so lucky to be with them. So how can we start having this type of dialogue with ourselves?
❤️ Forward to a friend that also needs to hear this as well.
What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! Bringing Back Organic Connection IRL: We loved this conversation with Harrison & Brandon of Updating who shared about their dating live shows and how it leads to organic connections – but also their personal stories of how they met their partners more organically through their networks. If you're looking to bring back the magic of IRL, this convo is a must-listen.
⁉️ 25 Questions to Ask In the First Month Of Dating: Check out a preview in our Instagram Post here, but get the full list as one of the free gifts when you pre-order 'How to Be Dateable.'
🦀 Julie can't wait for the annual holiday Crabfeed tonight which is her favorite event of the year, with endless crab, drinks, and a dance party at the end of the night in a Christmas Tree lot.
🎂 Yue is celebrating her mom's birthday in Temelcula, the "wine country of SoCal".
Your Deal of the Week:
Yue is still baking her Wildgrain goods from the this frozen baked goods delivery subscription. Everything has been so fresh and tasty – and bakes in 25 minutes or less. Get $30 off your first box – PLUS a free item in every box– when you go to Wildgrain.com/DATEABLE to start your subscription.
holiday shopping with Uncommon Goods. She's got her eye on a few items that are just so unique and she knows will be a hit. Get 15% with the code DATEABLE.
Julie is loving these makeup brushes from Anisa Beauty. As someone who never quite got the whole makeup thing down, it was a gamechangeer to learn how important the brush is! Apparently that's what makes or breaks makeup application. Get 30% off site-wide with the code DATEABLE.
We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. We would not still be doing this podcast (and releasing A BOOK!) if it wasn't for you.
We're excited to keep the Dateable mission going strong! If you haven't yet:
- Pre-order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
- Claim all your FREE goodies that you can access now!
- Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, and even reviews mentioning that you pre-ordered and are excited about the book!)
- Share with a friend who also needs this (so they can pre-order and benefit from these free resources now too!)
Thank you in advance for your support!
Have a great weekend, all! And remember to stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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