This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: Settling only happens when you aren't staying true to yourself.
Ah settling! One of our favorite topics. Everyone is so damn afraid of settling, but what does it even mean to settle? And why won't we settle for someone who doesn't meet all the criteron on our "list" yet we settle for bad dating behavior, situationships, and even unfulfililng relationships?
In our opinions, how you're feeling or being treated are the true measures if you're settling or not. If you aren't feeling fulfilled, or happy, or feel like your needs are being met, then you're settling. Every other aspect is negotiable. It's all about recognizing what actually matters in a relationship – and letting go of the vision you may be holding onto. We're certainly not saying to be with someone you aren't attracted to or who you don't enjoy being with. But changing who you view as "settling" will open doors in ways you never thought were possible. You may be surprised who comes your way. Because when you stop settling for crumbs, you tend to get that whole damn pie.
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What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! The Settling Paradox
If this resonates with you, definitely listen to this episode if you haven't already yet! We dig into the Settling Paradox which keeping us trapped in this endless dating cycle. And when we change our views on settling...that's when the magic happens.
🥳 Pre-Order How to Be Dateable and get your gifts!
If you haven't yet, pre-order the book, and go get your pre-order gifts ! You'll get our Modern Dating Survival Guide, 25 questions to ask in the first month of dating, and Managing Anxiety in early dating audio guide. $108 value just for the price of the book (can do hardcover, audiobook, or kindle!) All you do is order your copy, put in your order number, and then voila! The gifts are yours to use ASAP! Pre-orders help us so much so thank you in advance and excited to give back to you all!
🎃 Julie's in the Halloween spirit with two Halloween events down and one to go. She really enjoyed the Moth storytelling event last night and highly recommends checking it out if it comes to your area.
🎾 Yue is playing tennis Thursday night to actively avoid trick or treaters. But! She will be dressed up.
Somehow we both have similar costumes despite no coordinaton. Yue is actually a watermellon but everyone thought she was a lady bug.
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Have a great week, all! And remember to stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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