This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: Trust in your timing
We often think we're behind if we aren't hitting milestones in a certain timeframe. But ultimately, your story is meant to unravel in the time needed, in the best way possible. When Julie looks back at her dating & relationship history, it's so clear that everything had to happen – all the experiences and lessons in love – to get to the place she is now. Yue also shares in our book that when she faced that breakup bombshell last year, it could have been so easy to say "I can't believe I'm starting over again at 42." But look at her now! She's in a much happier and healthier relationship – and so much more secure in her sense of self.
So if you're feeling behind or like you're the lone single person left in your group of friends, have no fear. Your time will for sure come. But you need to have that trust that everything is unfolding as it's meant to be. For now, what you can control is what you're learning from every experience. So take inventory when you see yourself getting stuck in the traps of modern dating (ahem, if you haven't listened to this week's episode about relationship chicken, go do so now!). Because things are happening for you, not to you. And the growth happens in that messy middle.
❤️ Forward to a friend that also needs to hear this as well.
What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! Relationship Chicken: We've come to our last duo episode of the season where we talk about the final trap of modern dating: Relationship Chicken. It's been so fun to highlight these traps that are in our upcoming book 'How to Be Dateable'. This is seriously what we believe to be one of the biggest challenges in modern dating. And being aware is step #1.
🎁 Modern Dating Survival Guide: You get a guide! No, you get a guide! Anyone who pre-orders 'How to Be Dateable' gets our free Modern Dating Survival Guide (along with $108 worth of other free extras). So gift yourself 'How to Be Dateable' this holiday season + get all these goodies FOR FREE NOW. Happy holidays to all!
❤️🩹 Julie is playing nurse helping her partner while he heals from surgery. This will involve a lot of Netflix and lounging this holiday for sure!
🙏Yue went for a much-needed massage after some back pain this week. Time for the holiday break!
Your Deal of the Week:
Julie asked for a Quince gift card this year because she seriously can't get enough of their $50 cashmere. Hopefully, Santa got the memo! Get free shipping and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable
Yue decided to gift herself the Super Glow Body Set from OSEA because why the heck not! Get 10% off your purchase site-wide with the code DATEABLEPODCAST.
We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. We would not still be doing this podcast (and releasing A BOOK!) if it wasn't for you.
We're excited to keep the Dateable mission going strong! If you haven't yet:
- Pre-order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
- Claim all your FREE goodies that you can access now!
- Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, and even reviews mentioning that you pre-ordered and are excited about the book!)
- Share with a friend who also needs this (so they can pre-order and benefit from these free resources now too!)
Thank you in advance for your support! Happy holidays to everyone!
And remember to stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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