This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: Thank you to my ex.
And once you do find that person (because we know you will), we want you to give a big thank you to your ex (or situationship, or person you were hung up on, unrequited love, you fill in the blank). For NOT being the right person for you. For stepping away so the right person could step up. For maybe being a giant jerk so you now could see how you never ever wanted to be treated again. For testing you so you were able to really look deep into why you kept attracting and going for people like this.
It may not feel like it now, but one day it'll be abundently clear why all these other people didn't work out. And yes, you may even be grateful to the bad first dates, situationships, f*boys, and whoever else helped shape your journey to get to where you want to be.
❤️ Share with a friend that also needs to hear this as well.
What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! Breaking The Cycle of Dating Emotionally Unavailable Men w/ Drea Renee. Also tune in Sunday for an all new #brunchtalk!
🇬🇷 Julie is basking in the sun at beach in Greece. Honeymoon in full force.
🇨🇳 Yue is prepping for her trip to China ...back to the motherland!
Book Review of the week
"This was the best book on dating I’ve ever read… then re-read. This book kept me positive and kept reminding me that there’s nothing wrong with me, and assured me that my right guy was out there, and to just keep being myself and doing things that make me happy. I keep re-reading parts of this book constantly and feel like I’m now well equipped to begin dating again. The authors even made it seem fun! I hadn’t been on the dating scene for over 10 years so I was actually scared to do it again, but after reading this book I not only feel prepared, I feel invigorated that my next relationship will be even better because I now know how to pick the right guy for me and I will no longer settle, due to thinking that this I will be my last opportunity to meet someone. I now believe that’s not true, and I can be picky and have what I want, and now I can’t wait to get started."
Pick up the book (or audiobook) now if you haven't yet. And leave us a review on Amazon, Goodreads, or wherever else you got the book (Audible, Barnes & Noble, Spotify, etc.)
Upcoming Events
Love Isn't Blind: If you're looking for comedy, mingling, and an outright good time, check out the live dating show 'Love Isn't Blind' with comedian Allison Goldberg. Shows are currently scheduled for SF, LA, San Diego, Portland, Chicago, NYC and DC. Use code DATEABLE for discounted tix.
Chaotic Singles Party: Tired of the apps? Want to date IRL at an epic party instead? Come to a Chaotic Singles Party (now in 12 cities nationwide!) After going viral on TikTok for inviting her dating app matches to her house for a house party, Cassidy Davis started a new dating trend called The Chaotic Singles Party. Now she hosts these parties all over the country where 100+ singles can meet matches IRL at an epic party!
Your Deal of the Week:
Yue is back on her smoothy kick. Those Washington Red Raspberries just hit! For recipes, healthy tips, and retail locations go to https://redrazz.org
Julie is rocking all her Quince wear in Greece. Who could resist as Quince simply has the best stuff out there at the most affordable prices! Go to https://quince.com/dateable for free shipping and 365 day returns.
We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:
- Order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
- Leave a review on the platform you bought from
- Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, etc)
- Share with a friend who also needs this book now
Make sure to subscribe to Dateable wherever you listen to podcasts and follow us @dateablepodcast on Instagram!
Have a great weekend and stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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