This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: The only waste of time in dating is when we're not connecting
When we were writing our book, we kept thinking about how no one wants to waste time in dating. But we're told all the things we're supposed to, and end up spinning our wheels in areas that really don't matter. Which is exhausting! And it certainly doesn't move the needle to get the results we actually want (i.e meeting the love of our life and building an incredible relationship).
So we decided to deep-dive on this topic for this week's episode. Because if we can identify the time wasters, we can exert our energy into the areas that actually bring us joy when dating. You know, the whole connecting bit. Because that's the problem with modern dating. If you think about the dating apps, the biggest reason we're all so burnt out is that more time is spent doing admin on the apps – evaluating the profile, writing that opening line, messaging back and forth – then actually going out and having a magical date. It's time we flip that time equation around and spend less time ruminating and more time connecting.
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What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! How to Stop Wasting Time When Dating. If you haven't listened yet, it's time to pop this on for your weekend walk or even before getting ready to go out. Make sure to subcribe today and stay tuned for this week's brunch talk where we chat about why things didn't go anywhere after that great first date.
💕 Our signature program 'Finding Your Person' is CLOSING! We absolutely love this program and are almost at capacity of the people we can take on this co-hort. Sign up now as we're getting low on spots and registration will close on Sunday. We've seen so many people do a 180 in their dating life and can't wait to work with you.
✃Julie just got a much needed haircut to get ready for the bachelorette festivities next week!
🐶 Yue's got a real furbaby now as she's trialing having Mojo in a bassinet – so far he's been a lot more chill while she's working.
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Julie just bought some new wardrobe staples from Quince: jeans, sunglasses, a bag, shoes and some linen pants. Hopefully she can rock some of these at the bachelorette party! Get free shipping and 365 day returns.
We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:
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Have a great weekend and stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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