This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: It's not to much to ask for the bare minimum
In dating, we often think we're asking for far too much when in fact we ask for way too little. It's not too much to ask for someone to be as invested as you are. It's not too much for someone to text when they say they will. It's not too much for someone to setup and commit to plans with ample notice. It's not too much for someone to be there with you through the hard times. And it's not too much for someone to be committed to making things work.
When someone you're dating gives you 10% effort, instead of giving them 9%, give them zero. Your needs are valid. And the right person will want to meet them.
So next time you're feeling like you're being "too needy" or "too much" remember that most times what you're asking for is the bare minimum. Instead of repressing your needs or sinking to their level, raise your expectations of how you want to be treated. The right people will rise up.
❤️ Forward to a friend that also needs to hear this as well.
What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! Ask Us Anything: How to Be Dateable Edition We're answering all your QA's about the book and how we used the learnings from the podcast (and our personal lives) to write it. Also check out the quickie we dropped today sharing how we celebrated the day of launch and also the extended THANK YOU to all of you for picking up the book!
🎉 Season 20 starts NEXT WEEK: We are back officially starting next week and we have an incredible season in store! Our first episode is going to be a banger so make sure to subscribe now if you haven't already on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.
🎯 Now it's time to put the Dating Archetypes Quiz into action! If you've taken the quiz, you'll see how to really leverage this information in the book. And if you haven't taken it yet, go take it now!
💒 Julie locked down a wedding venue and feels so relieved! What a week between this and the book!
⛱️ Yue went down to San Diego this week for some work meetings but was able to bring her bff (aka her mom) along for the trip!
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We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:
- Order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
- Leave a review on the platform you bought from
- Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, etc)
- Share with a friend who also needs this book now
We're still reveling in the excitement from this week. Hope you all are too, and have a great weekend!
Stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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