This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: Any action outweighs inaction
We had a great question at our live event last night: how do you help a Thinker get out of their own way? And our answer: Take action.
Even for the non-thinkers out there, we often get questions like: "Should I wait to text them?" or "Is it too early to introduce the person I'm seeing to friends?" The reality is there are no timelines or "steps" to take to ensure your relationship works out. We spend far too much time overanalyzing situations (or asking our friends for their opinion!), instead of just talking to the actual person we're dating.
So next time you feel yourself in a rumination spiral wondering what to do next, instead of consulting the group text to weigh all the options, just take action. Text the person. Ask them on that date. Share that you want to meet their family. While it may be scary to be this direct, it truly is the only way. Only then will you know if someone is on the same page as you. And if they're not? Then it either opens the gate for conversations or you have your answer if they are worth investing more time into.
Because when you take action, you get answers. And ultimately that is what helps you get the necessary information to take control of your love life.
❤️ Forward to a friend that also needs to hear this as well.
What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! Scare Them Away Season 20 is back baby!!! This episode is a banger and we guarantee you'll feel more empowered after listening to it. And we'll have an all new #brunchtalk this Sunday as well. We're trying a slightly different format so check it out and let us know what you think!
🎉 Dateable day is happening this Saturday and some local groups are meeting up IRL whether it's for brunch, at the park, or however else they want to connect. We're excited to celebrate the release of the book and use this as an excuse for more in-person connection.
🍤 Julie is doing some catering tastings which in her and her partner's opinion may be the best part of wedding planning!
🌁 Yue is chilling the F out this weekend before she heads up to San Francisco for an action-packed week!
Your Deal of the Week:
Yue is rocking her clothes from Armoire where she'll be wearing some new looks for the SF events this week. Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) with the code DATEABLE
Julie can't wait to try her Cloud9 Gummies from VIIA this weekend. Get 15% off all products with the code DATEABLE. And if you're new to VIIA, get a free gift of your choice!
We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:
- Order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
- Leave a review on the platform you bought from
- Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, etc)
- Share with a friend who also needs this book now
We're still coming down from the high from the event last night and can't wait to keep the energy going all week! Have a great weekend everyone!
Stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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