This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: You're the CEO of your love life (Don't act like an intern)
Why is that we're bosses in our professional lives (literally and figurately) yet in our personal ones, we let people walk all over us? Or we're at their disposal - waiting for them to text, ask us out again, or decide if they want to commit. We let our emotions ride on a mere stranger.
If someone wasn't showing up the way we wanted in work, we'd let them know. If it got really bad, we'd fire them. Yet in dating, we often invest more into people who aren't showing up. Make that make sense.
Which is why we love using the Only 7 Things that matter as a gut check (listen to this week's episode if you haven't yet!). Because you're the CEO of your love life. And CEO's are busy people - they say what they want and get returns on their investments. And when something isn't working out? They pivot. It's not a failure, but rather a learning that something wasn't serving them.
In dating, you're in control of your love life. You decide who you give your time and energy to. It's you that calls the shots – not the apps, not the person who hasn't text you back. So remember that as you date. We hope this makes you feel empowered in your decision making. It's not selfish to date with your needs at the forefront – it's essential!
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What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! The Only 7 Things That Matter (When Choosing a Partner). If you haven't yet, make sure to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. We will also be back with #brunchtalk this Sunday where we talk about the disconnect between women + men right now in dating.
📺 We're doing weekly Dating Q&A Live on YouTube! Pop into our channel every Tuesday at 4pm PT / 7pm ET and ask us questions live! Subscribe today if you haven't yet.
💕 Our signature program 'Finding Your Person' will open this SUNDAY! This is our flagship program where we take on a new cohort 1-2 times per year. This program does sell out each time as an FYI so join the early-bird waitlist.
🎭 Julie is doing an improv show after her beginners class – terrified to say the least.
🎾 Yue is excited to get out there and hit some balls (that sounds way more risqué than it should)
Your Deal of the Week:
Yue is doing some spring cleaning with all her Blueland cleaning supplies. Get 15% off with the code DATEABLE.
Julie had the pleasure of meeting the founder of Armoire this week at a meetup she hosted that was so much fun! Truly love this clothing rental service and all the incredible styles get to check out. Get 50% off your first month of clothing rentals (up to $125 off) by using the code DATEABLE
We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:
- Order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
- Leave a review on the platform you bought from
- Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, etc)
- Share with a friend who also needs this book now
And make sure to subscribe to Dateable wherever you listen to podcasts and follow us @dateablepodcast on Instagram!
Stayyyy Dateable.
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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