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❤️ The Power of Detachment (In Dating) | The Dateable Dish

Dec 13, 2025
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Hello Dateables, 

Hope everyone is getting into the holiday spirit! As 2025 comes to a close, we're making sure to enjoy all the festivities – from the light shows, crabfeeds, holiday parties, and so much more. If you missed our episode last week, check out the #brunchtalk we did all about how to maximize this holiday season and why it can be the best time to be single. Because it's the perfect time of year to take a break from the apps, enjoy time with friends or on your own, and who knows who you could meet? Because wearing an ugly sweater gives you the BEST opening line (in fact, we even made you one). 


This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now:

The right person won’t make you guess how they feel. No more decoding texts, replaying moments, or searching for hidden meaning. Real love is transparent. When someone is emotionally ready, they’ll make sure you know it. Clarity is the real love language.

❤️ Share with a friend that also needs to hear this as well. 


What We're Up To This Week

🎧  New Episode Alert! Grateful for Modern Dating (Yes, Really). Make sure to subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts for our season finale 'How to Be Detached in Dating Yet Still Open for a Relationship w/ Sabrina Bendory. Also stay tuned for special limited series we have dropping THIS SUNDAY!

❤️ We also launched our new podcast 'The Psychology of Relationships' available now on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts. Subscribe and listen to the latest episode about navigating pace discrepencies in relationships.

🎯 Try our new Finding Your Person Coaching App that's completly tailored to you – with audio journaling, interactive exercises, real-time coaching features, and so much more. We've been looking for ways to leverage AI in a way that feels human still so we were so excited about this opportunity as it's fueled with our learnings from the past 10 years and info from our best-selling course Finding Your Person. And there's nothing to lose because if it's not the right fit, you can get a full refund within 7 days. Visit studio.com/dateable to learn more. 

☀️ Yue is enjoying some pre-holiday fam time in Florida with her manfriends fam

🎄 Julie is headed to Nevada City for a Victorian Christmas extravaganza!


Book Review of the week

"The letter from your future self at the end bumped this up to a 5 star read for me! It was exactly what I needed to hear. (I’m also always trying to talk to my future self because I love her.)"

Pick up the book (or audiobook) now if you haven't yet. And leave us a review on Amazon, Goodreads, or wherever else you got the book (Audible, Barnes & Noble, Spotify, etc.)

Or reply to this email and let us know what you learned from the book!


Upcoming Events

Love Isn't Blind: If you're looking for comedy, mingling, and an outright good time, check out the live dating show 'Love Isn't Blind' with comedian Allison Goldberg. She has a show in LA TONIGHT and upcoming ones in DC, NY, SF, and San Diego. Use code DATEABLE for discounted tix.

Chaotic Singles Party: Tired of the apps? Want to date IRL at an epic party instead? Come to a Chaotic Singles Party (now in 12 cities nationwide!) After going viral on TikTok for inviting her dating app matches to her house for a house party, Cassidy Davis started a new dating trend called The Chaotic Singles Party. Now she hosts these parties all over the country where 100+ singles can meet matches IRL at an epic party! 


Your Deal of the Week:

Yue continues to use Rakuten for all her holiday shopping! Get a $50 bonus cash back just for signing up here: www.rakuten.com/r/HELLO3575?eeid=28187

Julie has a new wardrobe haul coming from Quince after she got rave reviews on her silk skirt over Thanksgiving. Get free shipping on your order and 365-day returns at https://quince.com/dateable.


We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:

  1. Order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
  2. Leave a review on the platform you bought from
  3. Let us know what you think (we love all the emails, posts in the Facebook group, Instagram DM's, etc)
  4. Share with a friend who also needs this book now

 

Make sure to subscribe to Dateable wherever you listen to podcasts and follow us @dateablepodcast on Instagram!

Have a great weekend and stayyyy Dateable.

XOXO,

Julie & Yue

 

 

 

 

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