❤️ The Psychology of Realtionships

Hello Dateables,

We are officially in grateful season – almost to Thanksgiving! Wow 2025 has flown by! Today we recorded an episode that reminded us both that we have so much to be grateful for, even when life doesn't always seem to be going our way. And how we can use this to help guide our love lives even in moments that feel like ummmm...why would I be grateful for that? Like that good morning texter who never actually makes plans – but reminded us to raise our standards. Or the walking red flags that taught us what a boundary is and how to put our own self first...the list goes on and on.

We also have an exciting announcement about a new podcast we're launching called 'The Psychology of Relationships' as we both enter new phases of life (don't worry, we're not going anywhere with dating content on Dateable!) If you are in a relationship and wanting to understand how to make it last for the long-haul, this podcast is for you. Or if you're single and want to be armed with all the tools so you're ready, this is also for you. Or if you are just someone who geeks out about psychology like us, follow today on Spotify or Apple Podcasts, or wherever else you get your podcasts so you get the first 3 episodes automatically when they come out next Thursday!

This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now:

The right love won't make you chase, question, or shrink. It will feel like exhale, not anxiety. It will ask you to be real, not perfect.

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What We're Up To This Week

🎧 New Episode Alert! Surviving The Horrors of Modern Dating w/ Rory Uphold. Make sure to subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts for the latest #brunchtalk out Sunday too!

🍷Julie is celebrating her friend's 40th in Wine Country. She's headed up to Healdsburg for some vino, relaxation and fun vibes.

☀️ Yue is visiting her parents in Orange County and looking forward to a little R&R.

Book Review of the week

"5 stars⭐️ This was so insightful and informative!! i recommend this to anyone trying to navigate the dating world <3"

Pick up the book (or audiobook) now if you haven't yet. And leave us a review on Amazon, Goodreads, or wherever else you got the book (Audible, Barnes & Noble, Spotify, etc.)

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Upcoming Events

Love Isn't Blind: If you're looking for comedy, mingling, and an outright good time, check out the live dating show 'Love Isn't Blind' with comedian Allison Goldberg. She has a show in LA TONIGHT and upcoming ones in DC, NY, SF, and San Diego. Use code DATEABLE for discounted tix.

Chaotic Singles Party: Tired of the apps? Want to date IRL at an epic party instead? Come to a Chaotic Singles Party (now in 12 cities nationwide!) After going viral on TikTok for inviting her dating app matches to her house for a house party, Cassidy Davis started a new dating trend called The Chaotic Singles Party. Now she hosts these parties all over the country where 100+ singles can meet matches IRL at an epic party!

Your Deal of the Week:

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We're so grateful for all of you and your continued support. A big thank you to everyone who has already ordered the book and for everyone else:

Order the book: https://www.howtobedateable.com
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Have a great weekend and stayyyy Dateable.

XOXO,

Julie & Yue

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