This Is What You Need To Hear Right Now: Your energy is contagious
When we think about attraction, we tend to go to looks. But that is only a fraction of what makes someone attractive! Arguably, the energy you exude can make a bigger impact.
While 'fit checks' can be fun, it's more important to think about your 'energy check' before a date. Sure you don't want to look like a slob and we're not going to deny that physical features matter. But the overall vibe, presence, emotional state and non-verbal cues that you emit carry so much weight when it comes to attraction. So remember that on your next date. Whatever you put out there (for better or for worse!) is contagious to the other person – and can be make or break for the ultimate attraction between the two of you. But this is good news! You don't need to lose those 5 pounds or buy a whole new wardrobe; just be conscious of the energy you're putting out there!
❤️ Forward to a friend that also needs to hear this as well.
Also, we gathered the attraction killers and amplifiers from our Dateable community and conversation with Mat Boggs. Check out the full Instagram post and give us a follow if you haven't yet!
What We're Up To This Week
🎧 New Episode Alert! The Secrets to Attraction with Mat Boggs
As mentioned, we were ecstatic to have Mat Boggs as a guest on Dateable. This episode has so many gems from his own story about not realizing the energy he was putting out there to what he's observed about attraction in his 20+ years of dating coaching. So go listen now if you haven't yet.
💜 Finding Your Person is open until 10/6
We've helped hundreds of people attract the right relationship by uncovering what's holding them back and building up the confidence to go after what they truly want, with proven, actionable techniques to meet the right people both online and offline. So if you've been thinking of joining, the time is now before this cohort closes. Get your spot now
💜 Introducing Finding Your Person Plus
If you're looking for even more 1:1 support, our new "plus" version of Finding Your Person offers more 1:1 time with the two of us and an even more personalized approach to the program where we meet with you weekly and can really guide the content specifically for you. We only have 2 more spots though for this. To learn more, scroll to pricing options and feel free to reach out with any questions. Get your spot now
📺 Julie binged 'Nobody Wants This' with Kristen Bell and Adam Brody and loved every second of it. Who else loved the show?
🍷 Yue just found out that Syrah and Shiraz are the same thing, mindblown. Just her?
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Stay Dateable!
Have a great week, all!
XOXO,
Julie & Yue
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