❤️ You're Probably Closer To A Healthy Relationship Than You Think | The Dateable Dish
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Hello Dateables,
Happy long weekend! We don't know about you, but we are in need of some R&R.
We've been really thinking about our conversation with Amy Chan this week. She said something that really stuck with us: most people are only one or two shifts away from being able to create the healthy relationship they want.
And we totally agree! We've seen it with so many people we've worked with. And that's also why Julie is opening her calendar for more 1:1 calls (PS there's a couple slots left in May!)
And to leave you with some hope for the weekend, here's three things to think about:
- The people who end up in healthy relationships aren’t necessarily “luckier” than everyone else — they’ve usually become more aware of the patterns they no longer want to repeat. A lot can change when you stop abandoning your needs, over-romanticizing inconsistency, or confusing emotional intensity for connection.
- Small shifts can change everything: who you give your energy to, what you tolerate, and how you communicate your needs. Sometimes the biggest transformation in dating doesn’t come from meeting a new person — it comes from approaching relationships differently than you did before.
- If dating has felt hard lately, it doesn’t mean you’re doomed or behind. Sometimes you're actually getting closer to clarity: clearer on what you want, what you deserve, and what no longer fits. And that clarity is what helps create healthier relationships moving forward.
If you want to read more from our convo with Amy, subscribe to our new substack!
If you've been with us for a bit, we know you are closer than it feels. And if you need that extra support and love, we are here for you:
- Set up your 1:1 Clarity Calls with Julie (limited spots left in May!)
- 20% off Profile Reviews (through Memorial Day!)
- Our AI Coaching App - free 7 day trial
..and of course the podcast + 'How to Be Dateable' book/audiobook
Happy weekend all. Stayyyy Dateable!
Julie & Yue
PS: Make sure to listen to new Dateable episodes on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you listen to podcasts. Check out the new episode w/ Amy Chan 'The Dating Funnel That Will Get You From a First Date To A Real Relationship' + our 'What We Learned The Hard Way' series are out now.
PPS: Already in a relationship or just super interested in the psychology bechind them? Subscribe now to our podcast 'The Psychology of Relationships' on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever else you get your podcasts. 'Life After Divorce: How Your Ending Can Be An Exciting New Beginning
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